How To Cope With Aging Gracefully


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Moms have solutions for everything. Yes, ladies, we’re pretty incredible! Unfortunately, the one thing a mother can’t beat is Father Time. Yes, aging happens to everybody, and there is nothing you can do to stop the process. The only tool that moms have is to accept the process and age with grace. Poetically enough, this prevents the process from being as intense or harsh.

Of course, it’s easier said than done because the first thing you want to do when you see a strand of grey hair is panic! With the following, though, you can give yourself more time.

Don’t Be In Denial

Denial is a river in Egypt, but it’s also the emotion that prevents you from aging with style and grace. By telling yourself it isn’t happening, you don’t tackle the issues head-on, and that acts as a catalyst for the aging process. For the most part, it’s the small stuff that goes under the radar, such as hearing loss. If you know your ears aren’t as powerful as before, it’s time to get started on restoring them to full health. Even if they don’t recover fully, you’ll limit the damage and have relatively good hearing for longer. The key is to spot the signs so that you understand the causes.

Protect Your Assets

Growing old has a funny way of taking the features that you love and giving them a different spin. Therefore, it’s smart to protect your assets now, even if you can’t spot the signs of aging, or you’re not particularly bothered. Greying or thinning hair are excellent examples. As far as aging goes, these are two features that are tough to accept. But, with the right coloring products and shampoos, you can fight off Mother Nature for a while yet. However, you have to be proactive and take action now.

Act Your Age

You can’t turn back the clock, so there is no point in trying. Investing in the latest fashion and beauty trends, far from making you look younger, will only accentuate your age. It’s not hard to spot because it looks a little tacky. Therefore, it’s better to act your age and dress in the styles and designs that you enjoy instead of attempting to be younger. Not only will you appear more elegant, but you’ll also feel comfortable in your skin. Here’s a secret: that’s the key to aging gracefully.

Strive For Inner Beauty

While it might be cliched, the quest for inner beauty is something everybody should strive for. When you forget about materialistic things, such as your looks, you start to understand what’s essential in life. And, this helps you to lead the lifestyle that you want rather than wondering what people are thinking and how they are judging you. All it takes is to realize that you’re an educated, humble, loving mom with more in her life than outer beauty.

It’s a lot more straightforward to age gracefully when you have your family to keep you young!


I'm a mother of 2 who likes to get involved in too much! Besides writing here I started a non-profit, I'm on the PTO board, very active in my community and volunteer in the school. I enjoy music, reading, cooking, traveling and spending time with my family. We just adopted our 3rd cat and love them all!

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The cost of studying isn’t cheap, and even though you might want to study and gain qualifications or skills, it’s not always possible financially. That’s where you’ll need to find other ways of funding it without you getting into too much debt that it becomes unmanageable. Figure out the costs from everything to the course or cost of the qualification itself to any literature you might need to buy along the way like ACT prep books. It should all be noted so that you can keep track of how much you need to spend and how much you’ll have to save so that you can still live comfortably enough.


Create A Study Space

A study space is important for you when you’re a parent because usually, the whole home can be a playground for your children. However, there will be one or two spaces that you can command in your home to be a quiet and relaxed study space. Otherwise, if you’re not conscious of this, you’re going to really struggle to get a space that works for you and what you need. Make sure your family are aware of what you need in order to study effectively and be sure to put your foot down where needed so that you can prioritize what space you are using and when. It’s only something that your household needs to put up with for so long until you’ve gained that degree or qualification.


Ask For Help Off Friends And Family

Friends and family can lend a helping hand when you need it, so don’t deny yourself that assistance when people ask. Reach out to those when you need them, even if it’s to take the children out of your house for the day so that you can spend time studying or doing a practice exam or test. Those loved ones of yours will be sure to repay the favor when they need you, so make sure to owe them one!


Learn How To Balance Everything

Balancing life in every aspect can be difficult, and the more plates we juggle, the more we feel uneasy. However, you need to trust and believe in yourself that you can, in fact, do what you set out to achieve. Yes, there may be some failures along the way, but everyone has the ability to succeed in life, and although this might be a challenging part of your life, it’s important to trust yourself and what you can do.


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One million years ago, man made one of the most significant breakthroughs, discovering fire. The development of language paved the way for early communication, and today, more than 5,000 different languages are spoken around the world. Having focused on hunting and gathering for centuries using handmade tools, humans started farming around 20,000 years ago. This industry remains an important sector for the majority of countries.

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