This is a partnered guest post.
They might not admit it, but men want to know everything about women. Women, on the other hand, know that they are, and always will be a mystery, impossible to elucidate. As much as guys like this, sometimes it is nice to be able to take a peek in Pandora’s Box. According to “Daily Mail”, every woman represents a sum of distinct behavioral tendencies, some of which are more visible than the others. Without further ado here are five things you should know about them:
- They are in search of a savior
A woman will never, ever, fall in love with a man who will make their everyday life more boring than it already is. On the contrary, they are looking for a knight in shining armor who will make them feel like they are running bare naked on a field of green. Metaphorically speaking, our lives are like a building with no windows, or an endless road between work and home, and we need an escape.
- They are afraid of guys who don’t know when to stop
There comes a time, in (almost) every relationship, when a woman needs a break. If she decides to leave you, the best chance to win her back is to give her time, and space. Don’t listen to all that so-called advice, which will encourage you to make a grand romantic gesture. Good dating tips do exist, but you do need to know where to go looking for them. Moreover, in real life, there is nothing more annoying than a man who doesn’t know that no means no. Women sense almost instantly when a guy cannot live without her, and if she feels that she has all the control, getting dumped seems almost inevitable.
- They like to anticipate
If her life is boring, she will be pulled like a magnet to the kind of man who will turn her world upside down. Make her dream about all the new and exciting experiences she will have with you, give her clues about the things that you will do to her (not only the sexual ones), and she will see in you, a challenge.
E.g.: “We are doing something special tonight, it is important for you to dress formal, it will be a night you won’t forget”
Mental games like this will drive a woman crazy.
- They need to feel different
As the old saying goes, “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I’m around you.” This makes a lot of sense. If you are a passionate person, who knows how to live and who appreciates every moment, then it is highly likely that your girlfriend will feel the same way. In conclusion, the future of your relationship depends on you.
- They don’t go for lesser men
It is a well-known fact that most men settle for women who don’t have great potential. A woman, on the other hand, will never accept a man who isn’t better than her, at least in one regard. They are aware that their own possibilities (mental and material) are dependent on the potential of their mate. Unlike men, they see into the future, and will picture how their life will be alongside you.
I actually don’t like anticipation. I’m more of an immediate gratification type of gal.
I agree with a few but personally I just prefer steady and stable.
I agree with Colleen, I’m like steady and stable, too. Although my hubby is very spontaneous…. me, not so much. I’m a planner. 🙂
You better follow through on #3 though, or you will guarantee being dumped promptly.
I still remember one numbskull telling me to make sure I dressed for dinner. He took me to a lower mid-range joint with vinyl tablecloths. Yes, he was dumped that evening.
All true!
Those are pretty good! I don’t know about the lesser man one though- I think when you like someone, you don’t see them as “lesser”, even if they are. But I get what they’re saying.
I am like Crystal, I like immediate gratification most of the time LOL. Every now and then I like anticipating something but not too much, I just want it right then LOL
I guess I’m not a woman, because I don’t agree with almost any of those things.
Those are good, but I am not so sure that #5 is acurate. I think I have seen some women who are better than the men they are with.