The Importance of Aftercare: Piercings and Tats

Most of us who have body jewelry or tattoos (or both) know that after care is a major part of getting any new body decoration. Not only is aftercare important for your health, and the healing of the piercing/tattoo, but it can also make a huge difference in the overall look, aesthetic and even life of the body art in question. Ignoring after care doesn’t just result in things like infected piercings and scabbed over tattoos; it can actually result in your piercing having to be removed or faded, unprofessional looking ink.

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That being said, aftercare doesn’t have to be difficult or inconvenient. It’s easy to add after care to your regular, everyday routine. While your piercing or tat might be a little tender or annoying for a couple of days, if you follow your aftercare properly, it won’t be painful.

 

Tattoos

If you’ve got lots of tattoos, you already know this, but for the newbie, we’ll explain. Once you’ve spent some time using all the digital tools available to make a short list of Tattoo ideas, then found a reputable artist and let them go to work on your first tattoo, the aftercare begins immediately. Before you even leave the tattoo studio, your artist should wipe down your new ink very carefully with a sanitized cloth or wipe, then will give it a decent coat of antibiotic gel or cream. They’ll then bandage up the tattoo with sterilized gauze and tape to keep it safe and protected while you travel home. They may tell you to remove the gauze once you’re safely at home and reapply the ointment (this protects from infection and also provides an extra layer of security to your fresh tattoo). Over the course of the next few days (or up to a couple of weeks), you’ll need to reapply the ointment periodically, as well as gently wash and dab dry your tattoo.

 

One mistake that many people make is that they over-apply the ointment, adding a thick layer that doesn’t allow the tattoo to breathe. If you apply it too generously it can also over-hydrate the scabs, which cause them to flake off faster than they need to. This can result in a faded or discolored tattoo. Another mistake that people often make is to submerge the tattoo in a bathtub or pool before it’s fully healed. Again, this over-hydrates the scabs, which makes the tattoo fade.

 

Always follow the sheet or card the tattoo artist gives you, which will have detailed instructions for aftercare, carefully. Don’t stop aftercare before advised, and don’t over-apply your ointment. That’s the most important part! If you plan on being out in the sun, or you live in an area that is consistently sunny, you should make sure that sunscreen is always on your skincare list before leaving the house. Sunscreen is essential for the everyday anyway, but finding the best sunscreen for tattoos will give that extra layer of protection as it is specifically for that.

Piercings 

For a piercing, after care is equally important.

 

When you go for a piercing, the piercer will generally use a sterilized needle to pierce you (some places still use guns for ear-piercings, but most have moved away from these). They will then clean the area gently and give you instructions on how to care for the piercing at home.

 

Despite the very best in sterile conditions, occasionally a new piercing will get red and tender, or possibly infected. Don’t freak: there are ways to treat this at home. If your piercer provided you with or recommended a good cleaning solution, use that. If not, you can make your own saline solution for piercings (and these can be used at any time, not just when you’ve first gotten pierced. Saline solutions, especially with sea salt, are highly recommended to use for piercings). Use the saline solution as often as your piercer directs, and report to them (or to a doctor) if the situation doesn’t improve or the pain seems to get worse.

 

Never, ever take out your piercing before you’re supposed to. This is a big mistake that people make – they just got pierced, but they want to use a new piece of jewelry, so they remove the piercing before the healing time is complete. This can lead to infection, and can also cause the piercing to grow back. Wait until your piercer gives you the all clear.

 

Taking care of your piercings and tattoos is a snap, if you just follow the aftercare plan. You’ll be loving your body art for years to come!

 

 

 

 

Anne

Anne

I'm a mother of 2 who likes to get involved in too much! Besides writing here I started a non-profit, I'm on the PTO board, very active in my community and volunteer in the school. I enjoy music, reading, cooking, traveling and spending time with my family. We just adopted our 3rd cat and love them all!

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Asking For Help As A Parent

Before you have children, every parent you meet will tell you that raising a child is the hardest but most rewarding job in the world. Although you might think that you’re prepared for the role, there will undoubtedly be times when you feel like you’re spinning plates and swimming against the tide. Many moms and dads are reluctant to ask for help, but nobody is superhuman. If you’re struggling, or you can’t remember when you last had a moment to yourself, here are some tips to take on board.

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Lean on friends and family

Your family and friends are there to support you. Whether you need advice about getting a newborn to sleep as a new mom, or you could do with a hand to get your kids to different after school clubs at the same time, don’t be afraid to reach out and ask if anyone would mind helping out. You’ll probably find that you have several volunteers, and you’ll wish you learned to ask for help sooner. There’s no shame in asking your sister or your best friend to babysit for an hour if you’re desperate for a bit of peace and quiet or seeing if your parents could take your child to school one morning. You would probably offer your help to your friends and family at the drop of a hat, so don’t hesitate to ask for the odd favor.

 

Seek expert advice

Being a parent can be incredibly challenging, especially if you have concerns about your child’s health, their development or their behavior. If you have any worries about your baby’s health, seek expert advice. It’s always best to err on the side of caution, especially with young children. If you start to spot signs that cause you concern, for example, slow development or anger or aggression, it’s wise to reach out to people who can help you. Behavioral problems can be very distressing for parents and siblings, but there are health experts and organizations like Youth Villages that are there to support the child, as well as their family. Having access to treatments, programs, self-help therapies and assistance at home and school can make a really positive difference to every member of the family.

 

Dealing with work-related stress

If you’re a working parent, it can be tough to find a work-life balance. If you’re working long hours, or you feel like you spend 100% of your time either working or running around after your children, it’s important to try and look after yourself and manage your time. Speak to your boss if you’re working more hours than you should be or you’re doing more work than your colleagues. Ask about working from home or switching your hours to facilitate greater flexibility. It’s also critical to make sure that you have time to unwind and relax, especially if you’re stressed out or exhausted. Share the load with your partner, or ask friends, family members or neighbors to lend a hand. Even if you only have 10 minutes to run a bath or read a few chapters of your book at the end of a busy day, this can help to boost wellbeing.

 

Most parents find it very difficult to reach out and ask for help. Nobody has superpowers, and sometimes, it’s not possible to function 24-hours-a-day or provide the kind of support and care your child needs. There is absolutely no shame in seeking advice and asking for help.

 

Anne

Anne

I'm a mother of 2 who likes to get involved in too much! Besides writing here I started a non-profit, I'm on the PTO board, very active in my community and volunteer in the school. I enjoy music, reading, cooking, traveling and spending time with my family. We just adopted our 3rd cat and love them all!

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Choose the right criminal defence lawyer with these 6 tips

When you have a court case looming, it’s only natural to be worried about your future. However, when you have the right lawyer by your side, you should be able to feel hopeful that everything will turn out ok. That you’ll get your say, and that you’ll be cleared of all charges.

From DUIs to money laundering charges, there are many reasons why you might be looking for a criminal defence lawyer and like in most cases, whether it’s personal injury or family law, the right lawyer can make or break your case. Choosing a lawyer is difficult, but choosing the right lawyer is an incredibly overwhelming process. But don’t worry, I’ve gathered 6 simple tips that will help you choose your criminal defence lawyer.

Your lawyer should have the right experience

You wouldn’t ask an electrician to take a look at your plumbing. So, why would you ask a lawyer with no experience in criminal law to take on your case? When you choose a lawyer they must be experienced and qualified in the area of law you need. A criminal defence lawyer should have plenty of recent and relevant practice within criminal law and their company website should support these claims. The more recent the experience the more up to date their knowledge of the system will be.

Your lawyer should know the local courts

You may be charmed by a criminal defence lawyer with a great reputation and even greater rates in another part of the country. However, never underestimate the power and influence a lawyer with a good knowledge of the local courts can have on your case. A local lawyer will probably be familiar with how local judges operate and how they can tailor your case.

Reviews are important

Thanks to the internet you can get a pretty good look at the feedback provided by previous clients. However, don’t just rely on the wholly positive feedback present on their website. Head to Google+ and Facebook to see reviews of stars and ratings, as these websites don’t allow page owners to delete bad reviews! It’s a simple way to see if the lawyer in question is right for you.

Ask friends and family

If you have a family member, friend or work colleague who has had a positive experience with a criminal defence lawyer lately, then ask them for a referral. Get as much information about them as you can – their working practices, how well they kept the defendant in the loop and whether or not they were happy with the outcome.

They should have clear pricing structures

Rates, legal fees, contracts and pricing structures – all of these can quickly become confusing. A lawyer should always be transparent about their pricing structures and should not pressure you to sign something that you don’t understand.

They should be enthusiastic

Whether you’re guilty or not, any prospective lawyer should present themselves as eager and happy to work with you on your case. If they seem disinterested or eager for you to plead guilty then you should look elsewhere.

 

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Anne

I'm a mother of 2 who likes to get involved in too much! Besides writing here I started a non-profit, I'm on the PTO board, very active in my community and volunteer in the school. I enjoy music, reading, cooking, traveling and spending time with my family. We just adopted our 3rd cat and love them all!

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Top 5 Mother’s Day Gifts for 2020

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Although Mother’s Day is still a couple of months away, it’s a good time to start thinking about what you’ll do for your mom this year. Moms do so much, and you want to treat her to something that she’ll never forget – which is why it’s worth looking at gifts for her now, so that you can plan something truly remarkable (and be able to save if it’s something that will be expensive).

Having said that, the gift doesn’t have to break the bank. It can be a simple gift that shows your love to her without the huge price tag attached to it.

If you’re stuck for inspiration, here are 5 wonderful gift ideas that you can consider this Mother’s Day:

 

  • An Extraordinary Hamper 

Hampers are wonderful. A gift that your mom is bound to love, you can fill it with all of her favorite things. From sweets to chocolate, her favorite tipple or biscuits, it’s guaranteed to be a hit this Mother’s Day. Alternatively, instead of filling one yourself, you could purchase a hamper that’s already complete and send it straight to her door or give it to her on the day.

 

  • Beautiful Flowers

Who doesn’t love flowers? This Mother’s Day why not order a beautiful bouquet of flowers and get them delivered to her.

With so many flower delivery companies across the country, you’ll easily find one that’s in your budget. The moment that it arrives at her door it will put a smile on her face – whether her favorite flowers are orchids, lilies or another type!

 

  • Soothing Candles 

Candles are always a winning gift. So this Mother’s Day, treat your mom to some delicious-smelling candles or an infuser. Although you can buy candles online, it’s worth going into stores and smelling different fragrances to ensure that it’s not too overpowering.

 

  • Unique Jewelry 

This is the perfect gift for this Mother’s Day. Jewelry, whether it’s earrings, a necklace or a bracelet is bound to be a success with your mom.

No matter what piece of jewelry you choose, she’ll be amazed the moment she opens the gift box. Similarly to the other options on this list, a great thing about this gift is that there are a variety of stores that offer it, including www.whiteflash.com/whiteflash-houston-jewelry-store/.

 

  • A Personalized Gift 

If you want to get her a gift that she will never forget, a personalized gift is the way to go. Whether it’s a personalized pillow, coffee cup, a keyring or another item, it will make her think of you every time that she sees it.

Bonus Gift! 

 

  • A Trip the Spa

 

If you really want to push the boat out, why not treat her to a relaxing trip to the spa. Ensuring that she takes some time out for herself, it will give her the R&R that she needs. During this spa day, you could also purchase a massage or another treatment depending on your budget.

Anne

Anne

I'm a mother of 2 who likes to get involved in too much! Besides writing here I started a non-profit, I'm on the PTO board, very active in my community and volunteer in the school. I enjoy music, reading, cooking, traveling and spending time with my family. We just adopted our 3rd cat and love them all!

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How To Cope With Aging Gracefully

 

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Moms have solutions for everything. Yes, ladies, we’re pretty incredible! Unfortunately, the one thing a mother can’t beat is Father Time. Yes, aging happens to everybody, and there is nothing you can do to stop the process. The only tool that moms have is to accept the process and age with grace. Poetically enough, this prevents the process from being as intense or harsh.

Of course, it’s easier said than done because the first thing you want to do when you see a strand of grey hair is panic! With the following, though, you can give yourself more time.

Don’t Be In Denial

Denial is a river in Egypt, but it’s also the emotion that prevents you from aging with style and grace. By telling yourself it isn’t happening, you don’t tackle the issues head-on, and that acts as a catalyst for the aging process. For the most part, it’s the small stuff that goes under the radar, such as hearing loss. If you know your ears aren’t as powerful as before, it’s time to get started on restoring them to full health. Even if they don’t recover fully, you’ll limit the damage and have relatively good hearing for longer. The key is to spot the signs so that you understand the causes.

Protect Your Assets

Growing old has a funny way of taking the features that you love and giving them a different spin. Therefore, it’s smart to protect your assets now, even if you can’t spot the signs of aging, or you’re not particularly bothered. Greying or thinning hair are excellent examples. As far as aging goes, these are two features that are tough to accept. But, with the right coloring products and shampoos, you can fight off Mother Nature for a while yet. However, you have to be proactive and take action now.

Act Your Age

You can’t turn back the clock, so there is no point in trying. Investing in the latest fashion and beauty trends, far from making you look younger, will only accentuate your age. It’s not hard to spot because it looks a little tacky. Therefore, it’s better to act your age and dress in the styles and designs that you enjoy instead of attempting to be younger. Not only will you appear more elegant, but you’ll also feel comfortable in your skin. Here’s a secret: that’s the key to aging gracefully.

Strive For Inner Beauty

While it might be cliched, the quest for inner beauty is something everybody should strive for. When you forget about materialistic things, such as your looks, you start to understand what’s essential in life. And, this helps you to lead the lifestyle that you want rather than wondering what people are thinking and how they are judging you. All it takes is to realize that you’re an educated, humble, loving mom with more in her life than outer beauty.

It’s a lot more straightforward to age gracefully when you have your family to keep you young!

Anne

Anne

I'm a mother of 2 who likes to get involved in too much! Besides writing here I started a non-profit, I'm on the PTO board, very active in my community and volunteer in the school. I enjoy music, reading, cooking, traveling and spending time with my family. We just adopted our 3rd cat and love them all!

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