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Motherhood support can feel more like a unicorn than something you can access as a single mom. However, there are some ways you can build a support network system for yourself. From connecting with other single parents to accessing financial assistance, here are some ideas.
Specialist Support and Care
Being a single mom (or dad, for that matter) is one of the hardest things a parent can face. On top of that, you might have commitments to other family members with disabilities. When times are tough, this can make things even worse if they require medical care, support, and treatment. Fortunately, you can usually find a home and community based service provider in your local area. This can be just what your child needs, but also the reprieve that you deserve as well.
Connecting with Other Single Parents
There’s almost no barrier to connecting with others in today’s world. With social media and the web at large, it has never been easier to connect with other people, such as other single moms. Platforms like Facebook offer groups for chatting and connecting. But there are also apps made for this very reason such as Frolo. If you don’t trust online platforms, then you can also try recognized charities for 24/7 connection and support, such as the SingleParents website.
Motherhood Support by Networking
Recent data suggests that 45% of single mothers in the US live below the poverty line and are disproportionately affected by issues like housing instability. Sure, making money as a mom is easier than ever these days with things like side hostels and online jobs. But it can be hard to get a small business going or even find a remote job as a new mother. Like any kind of work, you can benefit from networking through local resources, the kids’ schools and local charities.
Applying for Government Assistance
Finances are often the hardest part of raising kids alone. The absence of another partner places a massive strain on a family if you don’t earn much money or aren’t able to work at all. However, there are government plans available for people in your position. The UK’s Universal Credit and Child Support system are good examples. As is the US’s food stamps program that can help with the basics of feeding your children. There is no shame in asking for help when needed!
Personal Wellness and Wellbeing
You can’t take the best care of your kids and possible without looking after yourself. Making personal wellness a priority will help you feel better about your situation and provide the motivation you need. This includes taking breaks when you can, excellent personal hygiene and eating a healthy diet. A positive mindset like this encourages a more harmonious home, even when times are tough. And this can be passed to the children as a greater support provider.
Summary
Finding specialist care for children with disabilities can be a lifeline when looking for the motherhood support you need as a single parent. Of course, networking can open up tons of opportunities for your professional life, but you must also take better care of yourself, too.
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